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How to Get Your Girlfriend to Watch Porn With You

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How to Get Your Girlfriend to Watch Porn With You

Today, porn is more mainstream and accessible than ever before. The days of having to hide chunky VHS tapes in the back of your wardrobe and buying top-shelf magazines are long gone. Now, you can watch porn on your phone, your tablet, your TV, or computer, with major sites like Brazzers and Reality Kings running successful streaming-businesses.

Still, while porn’s less taboo than it used to be, some men and women feel they have to watch it in secret. This might be because you’re afraid of being judged or upsetting your partner, or coming across as some kind of pervert. Men especially prefer porn more than women, as they’re more stimulated by visuals than we females tend to be, though some men also love the thought of watching it with their girlfriend.

There’s no reason you can’t watch porn together as part of a healthy relationship. Not only can it help to break down sexual boundaries and encourage you to discuss fantasies, it can also inspire you to try new positions and techniques.

So, if you’re looking to get your girlfriend to watch porn with you, but have no idea how to approach the subject, take a look at these tips…

 

Take it Easy, Take it Slow

First of all, don’t rush. If you suddenly interrupt her as she’s telling you about her day and whip out your latest XXX DVD, she’s unlikely to warm to the idea. Likewise, don’t suggest it during sex, either – she might well wonder why you’re thinking about other women rather than her.

Instead, ease her into the concept. Perhaps make a delicious dinner, open a bottle of wine, and gradually steer the conversation towards your sex life. Ask her if there’s anything she’d like to try in the bedroom, let her have her say, and then tell her you’d like to watch porn together.

Even if she’s turned off by the idea, bringing it up naturally, in an intimate, relaxed situation, is unlikely to sour the mood.

 

Tell Her Your Reasons

Your girlfriend might assume you want to watch porn with her so you can look at beautiful women without having to feel guilty (as you might when you’re hunched over your laptop, alone), or in the hopes that she’ll start to behave more like the performers between the sheets.

If either of these are truly your motivation, it’s hard to expect anything but a cold response from her. Instead, remind her that your sex life means a lot to you, and you want to keep it as fun and exciting as possible. Tell her you want to explore new ways to excite each other, and discover fresh pleasures and techniques.

Emphasize that it’s meant to be a shared experience, and not just you having your proverbial cake and eating it.

 

Reassure Her that You Find Her Sexy

If you feel self-conscious and inadequate when watching buff, bronzed, well-endowed men in porn, how do you think we ladies feel seeing buxom, toned beauties on-screen?

To make her feel better about watching porn with you, reassure her that you find her incredibly sexy, that you love her body, and feel turned on by the idea of her taking pleasure in porn. You could suggest kissing her and touching her as she watches a scene, so your attention will be on her arousal rather than the on-screen antics.

 

Pick Porn Designed for Couples to Enjoy Together

 If you manage to persuade your girlfriend to watch porn with you, take care to start simple.

For example, if your favourite scene features four quintessential starlets (such as Alexis Texas, Rachel Starr etc.) with one man, you can’t expect your girlfriend to happily sit through this. Instead, pick a more vanilla scene based around a couple, without any ‘unconventional’ moments (i.e. nothing she’s unlikely to enjoy straight away). Ideally, choose something that’s sensual, romantic, and fun.

By following these tips, you can boost your chances of getting your girlfriend to watch porn with you, and hopefully make it a regular part of your sex life. There’s something out there for all tastes, so if your girlfriend’s generally a little more adventurous in the bedroom, don’t be afraid to introduce more wild scenes to her in the future.

I'm a writer and a frantic online dater. For a long time my life has been surrounded by beautiful people and amazing stories. My experience with dating and life has given me an extensive insight into the mind of lovers. So I offer my humble advice, and look to you for inspiration.To get more tips on how to better communicate with the ladies, visit my blog at VictoriaMilan.com

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