I was watching TV a couple of weeks ago and saw this guy Vitaly doing something pretty awesome. The show was probably scripted and the guy was doing this to random women on the street but, the idea behind the whole thing is genius.
Since I’m meeting new girls all the time I figured I’d give this a shot and see if it actually works. You could, at least in theory, do it to random girls the moment you meet them but, in order for it to be really successful you’d want to do it after you had a little chat.
So, here’s how it works:
Get Some Alone Time
When I say alone time, I’m referring to you and her having at least a few minutes together. Ideally you’d want to try this out the night (day) you’ve met her, at around the 15-30 minute mark into the conversation. It also works just as well on the first date but as we’ve previously discussed, if you can pull out a makeout the night you meet her, you’re chances of scoring a lay at the first date will be much higher.
We all know how hard it is to properly judge the right moment to go in for the kiss. Some girls give out a lot of signals that let you know you’re in there but, others would kiss you even though they haven’t showed the slightest bit of interest. This method is just a way of getting rid of all this “judging the right time” bulls**t by providing you with a clear opportunity to take action.
So far I’ve tried this on 9 chicks and made out with 8 of them. I’d say that’s an outstanding success ratio and if that wasn’t enough, this method also allowed me to NOT waste my time with that 1 that didn’t fly.
Here’s what you want to do. You’ve been talking to this girl for a while, you can obviously tell that she’s at least marginally interested in you because she’s still here, in a conversation after at least 10 or so minutes. What you want to do is finish the subject you were talking about and then out of the blue say: “Ok, so now I want to ask you something”. Get her focused on what you’re about to ask and then move straight to it.
Question 1. Do you have a boyfriend?
You shouldn’t have discussed this by now since it’s pretty much implied if she’s still talking to you. The answer you want to hear is obviously NO, but if by chance she says YES. You’ve only wasted 10 minutes of your time and can simply bust out of there without wasting any more. This is exactly what happened with the 1 that didn’t fly. Although she was all on me during the conversation this just allowed me to spot a complete time waster that before could have eaten my whole night.
If she says NO, you move on to the next question.
Question 2. Do you find me attractive? Or Do you like talking to me?
You can judge if a chick likes your personality more than your looks and you can also tell if you’re mouth is hotter than your body. Either way, pick the one she’s more likely to respond YES to.
You want to ask this question because by definition if she doesn’t have a boyfriend and also likes you you’re basically proving to her that she’s indeed available and into you. You’re convincing her something that she already knows but you’re putting it out on the table and priming her for the last step.
Question 3. Can you give me one reason not to kiss me right now?
The execution is key here. You don’t want to ask the question then wait for her to say something. As you’re saying this you’re already putting your hand around the back of her head and gently pushing her closer to you. By the time you’re done asking the question she should already be half-way there.
The amazing part that makes this work so great is the fact that she can’t come up with anything in such a short time and she’s already convinced that she’s into you and available. Because the first 2 answers have now become truisms in her head the next course of action is absolutely natural. She literally has no reason not to kiss you right there and then.
I don’t care what you ladies say whilst reading this, in the heat of the moment you will kiss that guy.
Have a decent conversation for at least 15 minutes during which your dropped solid game and then you ask: “Do you have a boyfriend?” She says NO. Then you ask “Do you find me attractive?” She says YES. Then you look into her eyes and say “Can you give me one reason not to kiss me right now?” And gently pull her head closer to you; close enough to start the makeout session.
If you’re having a 15 minute conversation with a girl and she replies positively to the first 2 questions you WILL GET THE MAKEOUT. Literally, every time a girl has said NO to the first and YES to the second this worked.
This method is by far the best and easiest way to get a makeout session started with absolutely any chick. It takes out all that pressure about when’s the right time, would she reject me, how do I do it etc. It makes your single life that much easier. Now go out there and try it!
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Written by Alex Matlock