People often assume that if one partner in a marriage is cheating, it is going to be the man. However, there are also many men who get cheated on by their wives and this can be just as distressing and heartbreaking. Many men have suspicions that their wife may be cheating but do not have any firm idea about this. This can be even more frustrating because you have no idea whether your suspicions are correct or whether you are simply being paranoid.
It is important not to destroy the trust in your marriage by simply accusing a woman of cheating before you have any solid proof. If you are wrong about what she is up to, this could drive a permanent wedge between the two of you. This is why men who suspect their wives may be cheating should take time to try and get some evidence rather than just jumping in feet first without any real clue as to what is going on.
How can you do this?
So, how can you find out whether your wife is actually cheating or whether your paranoia has gone into overdrive? Well, there are many subtle signs that will enable you to pick up on what may be going on. You just need to know what to look for and also take the time to do your own investigations. For example, one sign that may indicate your wife is up to something is if she starts receiving more phone calls than usual and then leaves the room in order to take the call. If this is out of character for her, it may be a sign that she is up to something. One of the things you can do in this instance is use a reverse phone lookup service to see who it is that has been calling her. If she already told you it was a friend or family member and it turns out not to be, you will know she lied.
Another thing to look for when you are trying to catch out a cheating wife is obvious changes in her behavior or day to day routine. For example, you may find that she suddenly starts making more of an effort with her makeup, hair and appearance but only if she is going to work or out with friends as opposed to when she is going out with you. Remember, if she is cheating, this could be something that is happening at work so if she makes noticeable and sudden changes when going to work, this could be another sign.
Intimacy is another indicator of whether your wife may be cheating, although this should never be taken as a definite because there are many reasons why a woman may lose interest in intimacy with her husband. However, if she completely loses interest in any sort of sexual activity and she no longer likes to be kissed and cuddled, this could be a sign that she is getting all of this elsewhere or that she feels guilty.