Here’s a little known fact: women are more impressed by mutual respect than they are good game and pick-up lines. When you want to impress a new lady friend, you don’t have to posture, peacock, or neg her. (If you’re unfamiliar with negging, good for you. It’s the practice of undermining a woman’s confidence and gaining her approval through backhanded compliments and insults.)
Positive actions often impress women more than negative ones, and they result in more satisfying encounters. There are many things you can do to impress her, and none of them involve treating her bad or lying. Here’s a few ways to get and keep the attention of women in a healthy way.
Use Your Body Language
Body language is non-verbal communication, and it’s seriously effective when it comes to impressing the ladies. You can use your body to get her attention, and to show her you’re interested. Body language begins with your looks, but is also your actions (the way you move your body, smile, make eye contact, etc.).
Take care of your appearance. You don’t need to peacock, which is to display yourself flamboyantly. Rather, be true to yourself and dress in a style that’s appropriate and honest. Just don’t go out in your work clothes; unless, your work clothes are a three-piece suit.
And, make sure to make an extra effort for her, such as with manscaping. Wax your caterpillar eyebrows, and if you’re feeling brave wax your chest and other areas too. This is more for her than yourself, and she’ll appreciate that you’re making an effort similar to her. Don’t make the mistake of purchasing bad wax; instead, pick something that is all-natural and effective, such as a BodyHonee wax kit. Get a haircut, and use a good-smelling fragrance.
Once you’ve got the look, you can approach her with your body language. Give good eye contact; don’t ogle; don’t hold her eyes for too long. Just look at her, and if she’s look back approach her. When you walk over to her, stand tall with your shoulders up. Don’t place your hands in your pockets, and continue that confident eye contact throughout your conversation.
Make the Right Approach
The best approach is to be yourself. Don’t listen to the naysayers because those men seek to trick women. You can have a casual relationship that’s honest; women actually prefer this, and there are plenty of women who aren’t looking for anything serious either. It’s especially beneficial to be honest if you’re looking for a long-term relationship.
You can gauge a woman’s level of interest by asking her questions and seeing if she readily responds. If she welcomes you into a lengthy conversation, this is a good sign. Ask her if she’s single; she will tell you if she’s single and she will tell you if she’s looking. If she indicates both of these things, she’s feeling you. Researchers at Stanford University warn that you shouldn’t talk about work because study results determined women tune out when men discuss their jobs.
Impressing Her on the First Date
Finally, you’ve made your introduction, you’ve asked her out, and she’s said yes. Here’s the best bits of advice for a first date – keep it classy and keep it casual. Yeah, she may be your future wife, but if you show up with three dozen long-stem roses, you’re going to come across as desperate.
Flowers are a nice touch, but keep it simple. If you know her favorites, grab a small bouquet of those or be traditional and buy a bunch that are in season. Take her to do something she enjoys; if you don’t know what she likes, just ask her. Go out dancing, to dinner, or something else she’s expressed she enjoys. Be yourself, and if you connect you’ll truly impress her. If you don’t connect, accept that and move on.