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The Many Ways You Can Impress a Woman
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Here鈥檚 a little known fact: women are more impressed by mutual respect than they are good game and pick-up lines. When you want to impress a new lady friend, you don鈥檛 have to posture, peacock, or neg her. (If you鈥檙e unfamiliar with negging, good for you. It鈥檚 the practice of undermining a woman鈥檚 confidence and gaining her approval through backhanded compliments and insults.)

Positive actions often impress women more than negative ones, and they result in more satisfying encounters. There are many things you can do to impress her, and none of them involve treating her bad or lying. Here鈥檚 a few ways to get and keep the attention of women in a healthy way.

Use Your Body Language

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Body language is non-verbal communication, and it鈥檚 seriously effective when it comes to impressing the ladies. You can use your body to get her attention, and to show her you鈥檙e interested. Body language begins with your looks, but is also your actions (the way you move your body, smile, make eye contact, etc.).

Take care of your appearance. You don鈥檛 need to peacock, which is to display yourself flamboyantly. Rather, be true to yourself and dress in a style that鈥檚 appropriate and honest. Just don鈥檛 go out in your work clothes; unless, your work clothes are a three-piece suit.

And, make sure to make an extra effort for her, such as with manscaping. Wax your caterpillar eyebrows, and if you鈥檙e feeling brave wax your chest and other areas too. This is more for her than yourself, and she鈥檒l appreciate that you鈥檙e making an effort similar to her. Don鈥檛 make the mistake of purchasing bad wax; instead, pick something that is all-natural and effective, such as a聽BodyHonee聽wax kit. Get a haircut, and use a good-smelling fragrance.

Once you鈥檝e got the look, you can approach her with your body language. Give good eye contact; don鈥檛 ogle; don鈥檛 hold her eyes for too long. Just look at her, and if she鈥檚 look back approach her. When you walk over to her, stand tall with your shoulders up. Don鈥檛 place your hands in your pockets, and continue that confident eye contact throughout your conversation.

Make the Right Approach

The best approach is to be yourself. Don鈥檛 listen to the naysayers because those men seek to trick women. You can have a casual relationship that鈥檚 honest; women actually prefer this, and there are plenty of women who aren鈥檛 looking for anything serious either. It鈥檚 especially beneficial to be honest if you鈥檙e looking for a long-term relationship.

You can gauge a woman鈥檚 level of interest by asking her questions and seeing if she readily responds. If she welcomes you into a lengthy conversation, this is a good sign. Ask her if she鈥檚 single; she will tell you if she鈥檚 single and she will tell you if she鈥檚 looking. If she indicates both of these things, she鈥檚 feeling you. Researchers at Stanford University warn that you shouldn鈥檛 talk about work because study results determined women tune out when men discuss their jobs.

Impressing Her on the First Date

Finally, you鈥檝e made your introduction, you鈥檝e asked her out, and she鈥檚 said yes. Here鈥檚 the best bits of advice for a first date 鈥 keep it classy and keep it casual. Yeah, she may be your future wife, but if you show up with three dozen long-stem roses, you鈥檙e going to come across as desperate.

Flowers are a nice touch, but keep it simple. If you know her favorites, grab a small bouquet of those or be traditional and buy a bunch that are in season. Take her to do something she enjoys; if you don鈥檛 know what she likes, just ask her. Go out dancing, to dinner, or something else she鈥檚 expressed she enjoys. Be yourself, and if you connect you鈥檒l truly impress her. If you don鈥檛 connect, accept that and move on.

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